Episode 15

Toxic Positivity Impacting Our Self-Care

Published on: 6th August, 2023

Toxic positivity is the belief that no matter how dire or difficult a situation is, people should maintain a positive mindset and when it comes to motherhood emotions are often flying left, right, and centre. Jill and Linda think about this very concept and ask the question, can we really be positive all the time? Listen in as they chat about:

  • Why we begin each episode with highs and lows.
  • How on earth do we keep on top of organisation and housework while feeling so frazzled?
  • Postpartum reality of it not being all butterflies and rainbows.
  • Replacing positives in place of the negatives, the expectations it can place on ourselves, the idea of lying to ourselves and spiraling out of control.
  • Unspoken negatives that we may be worried to say out loud.
  • Unpacking the backpack and processing first in order to understand and address some of the negativity, helping us work towards more positive experiences.
  • We are not our thoughts. While we have negative reactions it does not define us entirely.

We would love to hear what you think and any ways that you are taking care of or mucking up your self-care.

Connect with Jill at www.mamaoutspoken.com or on Instagram @mamaoutspoken

Connect with Linda at www.lindabonney.com or on Instagram @hellolindabonney

We would love to hear from you, it always encourages us to know you are listening along!

Until next week – we hope you can unstuck your muck!

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About the Podcast

Mucked Up My Self-Care Podcast
Real, Raw and Unedited Conversations From Two Global Moms/Mums
A podcast for moms about the real, raw, and unscripted perspectives of guilt-free self-care by two moms across the globe. This unedited podcast is real life and their personal experiences told in friendly conversation style. Advocating for all moms who have mucked up their self care.

There are so many others out there that aren't successfully solving the real problem of trying to figure out what self-care is. We want to bring to light the reality of what self-care can look like for moms who struggle to fit it in, don't know what will work for them, and the ways that it hasn't worked. We want to have conversations about the guilt we feel when we are pressured to mother ourselves when we don't know how and aren't given the support to in our society today.

About your hosts

Jill Olish

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Linda Bonney

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