Episode 91

Self-Care Dialogue

Published on: 19th January, 2025

Ever notice how your inner voice changes when you're running on empty? In this raw and honest episode, Jill and Linda dive deep into the complex relationship between self-care and the way we talk to ourselves. From sleep-deprived nights to moments of joy, they explore how our internal dialogue shapes our ability to prioritize self-care, especially during those challenging seasons of motherhood.

Key Insights from Our Conversation:

The Sleep-Care Connection

Sleep deprivation doesn't just affect our energy - it fundamentally changes how we speak to ourselves about self-care. We explore the delicate balance between rest and productivity, and why being gentle with ourselves during these periods isn't just nice, it's necessary.

The Double Standard of Self-Care

We often give our friends permission to rest and recharge, yet struggle to extend that same compassion to ourselves. Learn how to recognize this pattern and start treating yourself with the same kindness you offer others.

Making Self-Care Visible

Something powerful happens when we name our self-care moments out loud. Whether it's calling a walk in the sunshine "self-care" or celebrating small moments of rest, actively acknowledging these choices helps validate their importance in our lives.

The Power of Genuine Dialogue

Not all self-care mantras are created equal. We discuss why authentic, believable self-talk matters more than generic affirmations, and how to develop a more honest conversation with yourself about your needs.

Your Next Steps

You're not alone in this journey of balancing self-care with the demands of motherhood. Whether you're thriving or just surviving today, we invite you to join our growing community of moms who are learning to unstuck their muck together. Share your thoughts on self-care dialogue with us. What resonates? What challenges you?

Connect with us through email or social media (find all our details in the links below), and let's continue this conversation. Remember, your self-care journey doesn't have to be perfect to be valuable.

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Until next week – we hope you can unstuck your muck!

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About the Podcast

Mucked Up My Self-Care Podcast
Real, Raw and Unedited Conversations From Two Global Moms/Mums
A podcast for moms about the real, raw, and unscripted perspectives of guilt-free self-care by two moms across the globe. This unedited podcast is real life and their personal experiences told in friendly conversation style. Advocating for all moms who have mucked up their self care.

There are so many others out there that aren't successfully solving the real problem of trying to figure out what self-care is. We want to bring to light the reality of what self-care can look like for moms who struggle to fit it in, don't know what will work for them, and the ways that it hasn't worked. We want to have conversations about the guilt we feel when we are pressured to mother ourselves when we don't know how and aren't given the support to in our society today.

About your hosts

Jill Olish

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Linda Bonney

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