Episode 92

Leading the Way with Self-Care

Published on: 26th January, 2025

In this episode, Jill and Linda talk about what it truly means to lead by example when it comes to self-care. They explore how mothers can embrace and model self-care in ways that ripple through their families and communities. This isn't about perfect Instagram-worthy wellness routines; it's about the messy, real-life ways we take care of ourselves and inspire others along the way.

Key Insights from Our Conversation

The Power of Accepting Help

When Linda encountered a kind stranger at the hairdresser who helped entertain her children, she discovered that sometimes self-care means letting others step into our village – even temporarily. This beautiful moment reminded us that leadership in self-care often starts with being vulnerable enough to accept support when it's offered.

Redefining What Self-Care Looks Like

Through their candid discussion, Jill and Linda challenge the notion that self-care must be Instagram-perfect or expensive. Sometimes, it's as simple as finding joy in napping after a busy week or feeling the grass beneath your feet while doing mundane tasks. It's about finding what genuinely replenishes your energy, no matter how unconventional it might seem.

Modeling Self-Care for the Next Generation

The hosts share how their children are learning about self-care through observation. When Jill's son recognizes "daddy's self-care time," it demonstrates how openly discussing and practicing self-care can normalize it for our children, creating a lasting impact on future generations.

Creating Change

By sharing their struggles and victories, both hosts emphasize how being authentic about our self-care journey can inspire others. Whether it's through random acts of kindness, honest conversations, or simply showing up imperfectly, every small action creates a ripple effect in our communities.

Ready to become a self-care leader in your own life? Start by identifying one small way you can model self-care this week – whether it's accepting help from a neighbor, taking that much-needed nap, or having an open conversation with your children about why you need quiet time. Remember, you're not just taking care of yourself; you're showing others that it's okay – and essential – to do the same.

Your journey matters, and we'd love to hear how you're leading the way in self-care. Join our conversation and connect with other moms who are navigating this path together. Together, we're building a community where self-care isn't selfish – it's necessary to be the mothers, leaders, and humans we want to be.

Connect with Jill at www.mamaoutspoken.com

Linda at www.lindabonney.com

Tune in next week as we continue to explore ways to "unstuck your muck" and create positive changes in your life.

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About the Podcast

Mucked Up My Self-Care Podcast
Real, Raw and Unedited Conversations From Two Global Moms/Mums
A podcast for moms about the real, raw, and unscripted perspectives of guilt-free self-care by two moms across the globe. This unedited podcast is real life and their personal experiences told in friendly conversation style. Advocating for all moms who have mucked up their self care.

There are so many others out there that aren't successfully solving the real problem of trying to figure out what self-care is. We want to bring to light the reality of what self-care can look like for moms who struggle to fit it in, don't know what will work for them, and the ways that it hasn't worked. We want to have conversations about the guilt we feel when we are pressured to mother ourselves when we don't know how and aren't given the support to in our society today.

About your hosts

Jill Olish

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Linda Bonney

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