Episode 29

Rage Vacuuming and Self-Care

Published on: 12th November, 2023

Apparently, the vacuum was one of the many supposedly labor-saving devices marketed in the 1920s that promised to liberate middle-class women, now managing their houses without live-in maids, from the drudgery of housework. And Jill and Linda have found another useful reason why the vacuum is so helpful. RAGE vacuuming. A form of expression which allows us to take out some of our frustration on the poor floor sucking device. Listen in as we expand and explore what it means and giggle through different aspects: We talk about:

  • How naps (or lack of) can affect our mood, routine of the day and sleep at night.
  • Anger as an emotion. How often we are taught and believe it is ‘wrong’ to get angry.
  • People pleasing and being the peacemaker tendencies and how that can compress and amplify in unexpected ways.
  • Stepping back, less interference, and compromises when trying to resolve issues of tension and anger.
  • Postpartum rage. Why isn’t anyone talking about it and what does it really mean under the roof of mama’s across the globe? Outward expressions of frustration and reaching the point where we blow our top.
  • Words spoken, internal talk, misinterpretation, and how we want to change.
  • How we process tantrums. Of our children, of us both before and after having children.

So, get out the vacuum, you never know it might be exactly what you need right now.

We would love to hear from you, it always encourages us to know you are listening along!

Connect with Jill at www.mamaoutspoken.com or on Instagram @mamaoutspoken

Connect with Linda at www.lindabonney.com or on Instagram @hellolindabonney.

Until next week – we hope you can unstuck your muck!

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About the Podcast

Mucked Up My Self-Care Podcast
Real, Raw and Unedited Conversations From Two Global Moms/Mums
A podcast for moms about the real, raw, and unscripted perspectives of guilt-free self-care by two moms across the globe. This unedited podcast is real life and their personal experiences told in friendly conversation style. Advocating for all moms who have mucked up their self care.

There are so many others out there that aren't successfully solving the real problem of trying to figure out what self-care is. We want to bring to light the reality of what self-care can look like for moms who struggle to fit it in, don't know what will work for them, and the ways that it hasn't worked. We want to have conversations about the guilt we feel when we are pressured to mother ourselves when we don't know how and aren't given the support to in our society today.

About your hosts

Jill Olish

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Linda Bonney

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