Episode 106

Sick, Stuck, and Still Mucking Through: Parenting and Self-Care When Everything Feels Like Too Much

Published on: 8th June, 2025

Jill and Linda are back—and they’re sick. This episode was recorded between coughs, chaos, and clutter, but that’s real life, right? Whether you’ve been knocked flat by illness or are just deep in the overwhelm of parenting, this is your reminder that bare minimum is still enough. From paper bags labeled “garage” to clean-up songs and microwave dinners, this conversation is a raw, real peek into what it looks like to keep going (with compassion) when you're running on empty.

  • Why survival mode isn’t failing—it’s the bravest kind of parenting
  • How bare minimum days still count (even with breakfast on the table 24 hours later)
  • Ways to prioritize rest when your to-do list is a disaster zone
  • Simple systems that help when your brain fog is thick and everything’s overwhelming
  • How to reframe mess and chaos as part of recovery
  • Why asking “what’s the priority right now?” can keep you grounded

Some seasons are about thriving. This one? It’s about surviving. And even if your house is covered in socks, dishes, and Band-Aids, you’re still doing an incredible job. Your corner will get cleaned. Your brain will clear. Your kids are learning from watching you muddle through with honesty and heart. You’ve got this.

For a simple way to start with self-care, send them an email or connect with Jill on socials @mamaoutspoken and mamaoutspoken.com and Linda @hellolindabonney or lindabonney.com.

Until next week – we hope you can unstuck your muck!

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About the Podcast

Mucked Up My Self-Care Podcast
Real, Raw and Unedited Conversations From Two Global Moms/Mums
A podcast for moms about the real, raw, and unscripted perspectives of guilt-free self-care by two moms across the globe. This unedited podcast is real life and their personal experiences told in friendly conversation style. Advocating for all moms who have mucked up their self care.

There are so many others out there that aren't successfully solving the real problem of trying to figure out what self-care is. We want to bring to light the reality of what self-care can look like for moms who struggle to fit it in, don't know what will work for them, and the ways that it hasn't worked. We want to have conversations about the guilt we feel when we are pressured to mother ourselves when we don't know how and aren't given the support to in our society today.

About your hosts

Jill Olish

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Linda Bonney

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