Episode 51

Misunderstood Self-Care

Published on: 14th April, 2024

Ironically, both Jill and Linda had different understandings of self-care and what that meant when planning for this episode. It makes for a fun discussion and means the conversation darts around several different points, including:

  • The landscape of self-care talk for self-care's sake.
  • How self-care isn't about putting your own needs ahead of others.
  • Self-care isn't typically about treats or pampering.
  • Self-care and selfishness.
  • Self-care isn't a list of behaviors; what constitutes self-care depends on the situation.
  • Self-care involves a lot of the self-talk, not just the external things that other people see.
  • Self-care isn't just by yourself, it's often social interactions and connections.
  • It isn't a one and done situation.
  • Others' understanding of what is self care for me- having to defend/explain that something is self care.

We would love to hear from you, it always encourages us to know you are listening along! Please reach out to us at muckedupmyselfcarepodcast@gmail.com with any questions, suggestions, or comments from this episode.

Until next week – we hope you can unstuck your muck!

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About the Podcast

Mucked Up My Self-Care Podcast
Real, Raw and Unedited Conversations From Two Global Moms/Mums
A podcast for moms about the real, raw, and unscripted perspectives of guilt-free self-care by two moms across the globe. This unedited podcast is real life and their personal experiences told in friendly conversation style. Advocating for all moms who have mucked up their self care.

There are so many others out there that aren't successfully solving the real problem of trying to figure out what self-care is. We want to bring to light the reality of what self-care can look like for moms who struggle to fit it in, don't know what will work for them, and the ways that it hasn't worked. We want to have conversations about the guilt we feel when we are pressured to mother ourselves when we don't know how and aren't given the support to in our society today.

About your hosts

Jill Olish

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Linda Bonney

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