Episode 120

Maternal Burnout: Why Self-Care Feels Impossible (and What to Do About It)

Published on: 28th September, 2025

Parenting, loss, school transitions, sleepless nights, sometimes it all collides at once. In this raw and honest episode of Mucked Up My Self-Care, Jill and Linda talk openly about the weight of maternal burnout. From disrupted nights and defiant kids to the impossible juggle of family, work, and self-care, they share the highs, lows, and the messy middle that so many moms live through.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How grief, school transitions, and daily stress compound into burnout
  • Why disrupted sleep leaves moms feeling like they can’t ever “catch up”
  • The difference between early motherhood burnout and maternal burnout later on
  • The hidden pressure of overscheduled kids and family routines
  • Why letting things slide can actually be a form of self-care
  • How to prioritize your needs when family always feels like the top value
  • Why burnout is a signal, not a failure

 

Maternal burnout isn’t just exhaustion, it’s the buildup of unrelenting pressure, grief, and responsibilities that leave little space for you. Jill and Linda remind us that you’re not alone in this struggle, and sometimes the first step in self-care is simply naming the burnout out loud. If you’re feeling stretched too thin, may this episode be your reminder that something has to give - and that it’s okay if it’s not you.

Until next week, we hope you can unstuck your muck! 💛

 


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About the Podcast

Mucked Up My Self-Care Podcast
Real, Raw and Unedited Conversations From Two Global Moms/Mums
A podcast for moms about the real, raw, and unscripted perspectives of guilt-free self-care by two moms across the globe. This unedited podcast is real life and their personal experiences told in friendly conversation style. Advocating for all moms who have mucked up their self care.

There are so many others out there that aren't successfully solving the real problem of trying to figure out what self-care is. We want to bring to light the reality of what self-care can look like for moms who struggle to fit it in, don't know what will work for them, and the ways that it hasn't worked. We want to have conversations about the guilt we feel when we are pressured to mother ourselves when we don't know how and aren't given the support to in our society today.

About your hosts

Jill Olish

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Linda Bonney

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